4 men’s outfits that are actually not good for a date & 5 hints for attractiveness. We look into women’s “naked honest feelings”!

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4 men's outfits that are actually not good for a date & 5 hints for attractiveness. We look into women's "naked honest feelings"!

Whether it is a first date with someone you have feelings for, a date with your girlfriend or wife, or a shopping date with your beloved daughter, the relationship and situation with the person you are dating is different. There is no man who does not want to make a good impression on his partner. It goes without saying that a smart and gentlemanly escort and pleasant conversation are important, but just as important is “what to wear. We conducted a survey on “dating attire,” and here are some of the shocking things we found out. Read this, and you may just increase your chances of winning a date, and open the way to becoming a popular guy!

Fifty women who work in the city center speak their honest opinions without any discovery! What kind of clothing is not acceptable on a date?”

First of all, while there are many different types of dates, we would like to focus on “dates between men and women” for this issue.
What is important in this theme is how to uncover hidden true feelings that women do not express to the men they date face to face. For this study, we conducted 20-minute interviews with 50 women working in the central Tokyo area, including Marunouchi, Roppongi, Shibuya, Shinagawa, and Shimbashi, on the condition that their names and faces were kept private. First, we will introduce five examples of past date-related clothing issues and the five most common reasons for them.

Men’s NG date attire (1) “Men who wear printed T-shirts that make too much of a statement are unattractive!

Many women expressed negative opinions about printed T-shirts. Of course, printed T-shirts are not necessarily bad in themselves, but what was particularly unpopular among women was “printed T-shirts that make too much of a statement. Many women dislike tops that are quirky or assertive, such as those with a large area of printed patterns or text, a large number of printed words, or eccentric printed designs.

Nurse N (23)
I was so embarrassed to walk around the city with him that I broke up with him early.

Other people have said that the choice of tops with too much individuality is a no-no!

Ms. A ( 30 years old)
Striped T-shirts with a big smiley face printed on them were a no-no. I couldn’t get into the conversation at all because my eyes were drawn to the clothes.
Mr. Y, 24, works for an e-commerce company
Even though it’s a Disney date, I don’t want grown men to get carried away and wear T-shirts with Disney characters printed on them.
Mr. M, 25, works for a trading company
A T-shirt with a high-brand logo printed on it. It may be a good fashion statement, but if a man wore it on a date, I would think, ” Is he trying to show off his wealth because he lacks self-confidence?” I would think, “I don’t know.

↑If you wear a too-famous high-brand logo T-shirt on a date, people might think that you are dating someone for their money!

While harsh opinions are concentrated, there are also those who conditionally approve of the quirky printed T-shirts!

Ms. T (24), works at an apparel company
Even if it is a printed T-shirt with a design that women in general don’t like, if the man likes the design and wears it, I don’t think it’s a problem at all. Instead, I would like him not to say anything about my clothes or hair style. Like, “I like girly clothes,” or “I don’t want you to wear blonde hair.” I respect men’s clothing preferences, so I will also let my favorite style pass! [/speech_bubble)

“”You must have some pretty harsh opinions about men’s date clothes, don’t you?” The women who work in the apparel industry, whom the editorial staff had expected to have “quite strict opinions about men’s dating clothes,” were unexpectedly generous with their opinions. However, when we listened to them carefully, we were convinced of the reason.

Men’s dating attire NG2: “Even if it’s a collared shirt that can produce elegance, I definitely don’t want an eccentric design!

It turns out that even collared shirts, which generally produce a sense of neatness and refinement, can be unpopular with women, depending on the design. Patterned shirts and shirts with vivid colors are often unpopular with women. Many women also said that wearing a shirt with the buttons open to show off the chest area was also a nuisance.

Y-san (22), customer service industry
I can’t walk next to a man who is over 20 years old and is still smugly wearing a shirt with a design that looks like something a junior high school student would wear at a Fatty’s or Fatty’s store…
Mr. K, 29, works at a travel agency
A simple stripe or check pattern is fine, but why did you choose a shirt with a fancy all-over pattern, such as dice or playing cards, for your date outfit? Please wear conspicuous clothing only on dates.

Men’s Date Outfit NG #3: “Actually, a lot of people are also against “border tops!”

Striped tops, which are marine-style and may give off a fresh impression, are also inundated with opinions that they are a no-no. From our perspective, border tops are a standard item that has established a certain status, such as basque shirts, so it was difficult to accept the results. When we asked for more details, we were told that the reason was the overwhelming lack of men who wear border patterns in a stylish way. It seems that there is no problem as long as the wearer knows how to dress fashionably, such as “choosing a border to add an accent with innerwear” and “paying attention to the size balance and accessories to make it fit in.

Mr. S (28 years old), IT company employee
I think there are a lot of people who are not comfortable with the idea of wearing border prints, which is a fashion newbie’s idea of being fashionable. I’m definitely glad that people who aren’t confident in their fashion sense can wear plain items without any pressure!
Receptionist I (24)
Striped tops are cute when worn by girls, but when worn by men, they inevitably look like a ‘Find Wally’ cosplay.

Men’s Dating Outfit NG 4: “Tight-fitting white pants are likely to get you a demerit.”

White pants, a staple in men’s fashion like borders, are also likely to give a bad impression to the other party if they are too tight-fitting. Some say that pants with damage on both knees are a definite no-no.

Mr. Y (24), IT company employee
I think tight white pants might look good on a foreigner, but on a Japanese person, tight white pants are too kyogenic. I don’t want you to wear them on a date.
Ms. H, 25, saleswoman
Pure white pants are a no-no, but off-white pants with a roomy silhouette are acceptable.

Other NG opinions include!


“The only time a suit is acceptable is on an after-work date!”Ms. T (29), receptionist at a dental clinic

“Tight-fitting denim-on-denim is too flirty, so don’t wear it!” Ms. S. (27), a manufacturer worker

“Shoes that are flimsy, have worn out uppers, or worn out soles should be thrown away.” Ms. T (24 years old), an apparel company employee

“I’m not sure how good a big feather necklace is…”

Ms. Y (25 years old), a hairdresser

“Damaged denim that shows your knees in your mid-30s and yarafui coordinates are a no-no!

It’s a shame if you can see your stomach when you hold on to the train’s strap.” Ms. I (22 years old), restaurant worker

I’m tired of seeing the combination of pattern and pattern that flashy old men tend to wear. I wish people would refrain from wearing shorts that are too short to the mid-thigh in their street clothes!” Ms. W (age 24), dental hygienist”

↑Thigh-length shorts are NG for date clothes. They may be acceptable for dates at the beach or pool, but it would be best to avoid incorporating them as much as possible.

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